Advice dating shy guys
On the other hand, many of the good looking guys who are shy are stuck alone or with a girl they’re not really attracted to. So the most important thing is to cut out any thoughts that sabotage your confidence or make you inhibited.
Especially when they haven’t done anything to deserve his attention yet except looking pretty.Most guys feel a little nervous around the girls they like, but they’re able to take a deep breath, push through it, and become comfortable with them over time. This post is for the guys who feel really anxious, scared and inhibited around girls.If you get a strong physical feeling of anxiety when you think of talking to a girl you like, or you feel a powerful, paralyzing hesitation when you want to approach or ask out a girl, then this post is for you.I’ve broken it down to three parts: Overcoming inferiority, not being too invested, and becoming assertiveness. And if you do, it will still be far less than around the girl you are attracted to.This post is going to go into more depth than anything else out there. Think about the way you talk to girls who you aren’t really attracted to. Do you talk to them the same way you would talk to a guy friend? This happens when you place so much value on looks that a good looking girl becomes intimidating.Many shy people have a constant stream of thoughts that point out what a loser they are.
If you constantly think about why you’re a loser, how you aren’t good looking, how you have some physical flaw that needs to be fixed, how you’re a loner with little or no friends, how you’ve never even kissed a girl, etc … By being too hard on yourself and being insecure about your appearance you are constantly reinforcing the idea in your mind that you are inferior to the girl.
Would you think that a lottery winner was superior to you?
Another way of feeling inferior is thinking that being less experienced than the girl with relationships will immediately make you repulsive to her.
Confidence and personality are more attractive than physical appearance to most girls.
Your looks don’t matter nearly as much as you think they do. All the good looking girls are around the confident, popular, charismatic guys.
Ask yourself: “How do I make myself feel inferior than other people?