Dating and relationships in china
Right now (October 2013) I’m living together with my Cantonese boyfriend and his parents.We are in the process of renovating the old family house for us.
If parents say no, then it usually is the end of the relationship sooner or later.The great thing about Chinese dating is that there is so much diversity among Chinese singles.Yes, about 90% of the population is Han Chinese, which people generally refer to as Chinese, but that means that there are well over 100 million ethnic minorities living in China, which is like a whole other country or two.Single Chinese girls are really, really in demand these days, but that doesn't mean that you cannot find the stunning girl of your dreams.There is an actual shortage of single women in China, because so many Chinese families opt to only have boys under China's "One Child-One Family" policy.But at the same time you get a man who wants to take care of his family, is willing to work hard for everyone’s happiness and loves kids.
Someone who knows why he is dating you and will let you know it too. If you meet a great Chinese guy then go for it, don’t let the stereotypes or someone’s bad experiences hold you back.
Over the last thirty years the birthrate for boys has far exceeded the birthrate of girls and so Chinese girls are really in demand by lonely Chinese guys.
There is one shocking exception to this rule; in China women over the age of twenty-six are considered undesierable as potential brides - this exclusionary phenomenon is so prevalant in modern Chinese society that there is actually an official term for a women over the age of 26. Obviously, Oprah, Vogue, and Cosmo have a very different take on the role of women in society.
He might cook for you, or make sure you always have water to drink.
Or he might go shopping with you and insists paying for everything.
The following tips are based on my own or my friends’ experiences.