Warning signs you are dating a loser
MORE: When a Guy Won’t Call You His Girlfriend TYPE 3: The guy who hates his job and/or doesn’t know what he wants to do with his life Studies have demonstrated time and time again that while women gain their sense of self-esteem and worth from their inter-personal relationships, a man assesses his value based on his job or ability to have an impact on the world.When a man feels like he isn’t contributing or being productive, he will feel like a failure.
Don’t be bitter about it, just be cool, confident, and honest.This guy will just bring you down with his negativity and will resent you if you happen to have your act together.If you’re already dating him: Don’t try to pump him up or find a job for him or offer insights into what you think he should do with his life.If he pouts, whines, guilts you, begs, then there’s something going on. TYPE 2: The guy who says he doesn’t want a relationship right off the bat (or won’t call you his girlfriend when it comes to poop or get off the pot time) It really just means he can’t see himself being in a relationship with .Don’t stick around and try to prove him wrong, it’s a losing battle.The last thing he needs or wants is added stress in his life and if you become a stressor rather than a source of stress-relief, he’ll start to pull away.
If he feels great about himself when he’s around you, he’ll want to keep you around and he will make more of an effort to keep you in his life. It could take months or years for his situation to turn around.
His behavior isn’t so much a sign of his feelings for you as it is an indicator that he simply misses being in a relationship.
If he isn’t getting out of a relationship, then it’s very likely his strong affections are a sign of some kind of attachment issues or self-esteem problems. If you’re in the early stages of dating, try not to see him more than 2-3 times a week.
If he’s into you, if he truly likes and respects you, he won’t let you go. Just like neediness is the biggest man-repeller, self-respect is the biggest man attractor.
Hold your own and don’t be afraid to walk away when you don’t get what you want, this is the only way to have a shot at getting what you want.
To do that, you need to know what red flags to watch out for so you can extricate yourself from a bad situation before you get in too deep and wind up brokenhearted.