Guys perspective on dating
We hate when you try too hard to be one of the guys. My solution is to try to get a place by the beach and do it out on the porch where you can see and hear the waves: Sex at the beach, but not on the beach. Sometimes, I just act like they have no chance, even though I might like them.
I'm so far behind, I can't imagine being asked to meet on Sunday for brunch by a girl I've dated for a month, much less having a child or being married. But are they as obsessed with sports like guys are? And I do find myself telling my sisters about University of Virginia and Boston College teams — where they went to school. I once tried this, but the entire time I was trying to contort my body so that I could get everything inserted correctly. It's nice to hear nothing but your lover's breath against the backdrop of the evening or early morning. It's peaceful to lie in someone's arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract me) in the background.When I just throw it all out the window and dismiss it as "crazy," it makes it easier to deal.We don't really think women are insane, we just say it so we can be done thinking about their antics and move on. Guys are happy to help out their girlfriends with emotional issues.We want to bail the morning after a one-night stand. I'm foul when I'm hung over, so I am sure others are too. Do everything you can to get home and fester in your own bed. Give each other a hug, wish each other well, don't say anything about calling, and don't believe him when he mutters that he will call you. There is no reason women wouldn't understand or know sports like guys do if they were as obsessed. That "up against the wall" variation is tougher than it sounds.
I just think guys across the board are more sports-obsessed than women are. The entire shower apparatus is so slippery, and then you have soap all over the place. Plus, I do my best to keep my bathroom clean, but I don't think I'd ever want to have sex anywhere near something called "mildew." think you're crazy sometimes, but only because it makes things easier for us.
But if the baggage becomes apparent too early in the relationship, then a guy will probably bail.
Also, baggage causes people to put pressure on or damage a relationship, so it may be doomed from the outset. Commitment means that I've decided that the woman I'm settling down with is perfect and there is no one else out there for me.
Also, I've seen girls wear pearls and a nice blouse to trashy outdoor drinking events, or heels to sporting events. We Check Out Other Women (Even if We're in Relationships) Sorry, but we notice a hot girl any time any place.
Hopefully most of us don't make it obvious, but we check out a cutie when we can.
The best thing to do is to act like you have some experience, and not question anything.